Unquiet

 

I've lived in this building for twenty years and I've noticed such a difference in noise.

The first few years I almost never heard a sound from inside the building (unless someone was doing actual construction or they were vacuuming the hallways etc) but now I hear all sorts of random clunks and bangs from early morning until late evening.  

The population of this condo has changed over the years and now there are a lot of young (i.e. under 50!) people living here.

I've noticed that many people on this hallway seem incapable of shutting their main door quietly.  They just pull it shut with a thump, or just let it bang shut on its own.

I was wondering if this is because young people just do not have quiet in their lives.  Ever.  They're constantly listening to something or someone so they never experience an absence of noise.  Judging by all the ear buds and such that I see I suspect they are totally addicted to having some sound.  For example the people wandering around this summer, not using ear plugs, and blasting music out of some device and subjecting all the neighbourhood around them to their choice of music.  Or workmen who seem to be incapable of doing outside work on a house unless their radio (truck or portable ) is blaring away.       Quiet is just not a part of their lives.

I've no doubt nattered on about this in other posts since I am a lover of quiet and unwanted noise has been a huge issue for me all of my adult life.

        

Looking Forward

Another year starting.  Of course a time for remembering and looking to the future.   Usually a time of year when it feels like a fresh start.

I find that something has changed this year.  

I think as we go through life we often think of things that we would like to do "someday".  Or places we would like to go "someday".  Or that we will find love, or a better career, or a great place to live -- "someday".

But I'm old now and I realize I'm not thinking in those terms anymore.  I don't think my life is going to change drastically - at least at my instigation, health issues and such could force change upon me - I don't think I'll be travelling anymore or falling in love or accomplishing anything much or really doing anything other than my day to day life as it is.  Not that I'm not enjoying my life.  I just don't think there's time left for new things.

Sometimes

 

Sometimes you meet someone

on vacation,  

or through work,

somewhere,

and never see them again,

but you remember them

all your life.

Time Flies

I was told long ago that as we age time seems to pass more quickly and it has proven to be true.  I have noted this in the last few years but last Sunday the fact seemed to hit hard.  I usually do laundry on Sundays and last week as I was sorting clothes I was struck so clearly with the sensation that I had just done laundry the day before.  It was as though the whole previous week had not even happened.  It was a disturbing sensation.

There's nothing to be done about it.  Time moves more quickly as we age.  But it does seem rather cruel that as our remaining days become fewer they pass so fast.

Winter

It's an unpopular thing to say around my friends but I actually like winter.

It's much easier to warm up when it's cold than it is to cool down when it's hot and humid. 

People stay inside more and the streets are less busy for walking.

People don't stay out as long with their barking dogs.

People don't stay outside making noise in general for as long as they do in warm weather.

I like wearing sweaters.  I like the shorter days.  

I agree that snow storms can be daunting and I do worry about slipping and falling on icy sidewalks but when I can bundle up and go for a walk on a cold sunny day with no wind like today I am so happy.

TV: Only Murders in the Building (Season 4)

And they're back!

And in good form.   Our trio are together rather than apart.

And there were some very nice human moments.  I hesitate to use the word poignant because it has connotations of being maudlin but for  me, while the program as a whole is a delight to watch, these moments just add something special.

Agatha Christie did this in her writing.  Her books were primarily mysteries but she often showed something of the human consequences of the deeds in her stories.  I think this is one of the reasons why her work has remained so popular.

 

TV: Only Murders in the Building (Seasons 1,2,3)

I have heard about and wanted to watch this for a while but only got access to it this month.  I haven't watched Season 4 yet but wanted to write about the seasons I have seen.

Seasons 1 and 2 lived up to everything wonderful I have heard about them and more - probably the most original program I have seen in years.  The plotting and style and cast were a delight.  The team of Steve Martin, Martin Short and Selena Gomez seemed unlikely but they were terrific together.  All things that you can find being said all over the internet.

However I was disappointed in Season 3.  It's not terrible by any means but there was something "less" about it.  I think one problem is that there is less intricacy to the plot, it's more in your face.  Also the kind of detail and empathy shown to all the characters in the first two seasons are missing - the hidden depths and complexity that made them feel real and personal isn't there and we're left with types rather than individuals.  They're fun and entertaining but we don't really care about them.   Meryl Streep and Paul Rudd are talented actors and I like them both but here they're just plot pieces and don't feel real.  (Ms Streep has a decent first scene where she auditions but that's really the only chance she's given to do something real with her character.). They don't really have a chance.  I don't know if this is the fault of the script or the direction or both.  The three leads fare better but to a degree they're coasting on the good will they built up in the first two series and I wonder why they kept the them separate for so much of the time.  It's watching them together that's the fun.  

I'd like to give a mention to James Caverly who plays Theo.  He's an excellent actor.  He's mainly in Season 1 but when he's on screen he's subtle and convincing.